December-Month 4-Nothing Was The Same

Whew! What a year it's been!!! :-)

Whew! I need to sit down! What a year it’s been!!! ūüôā

Of course I’d throw a¬†rap reference in my title! Anyway, nearing¬†the close¬†of my FIRST¬†everything¬†overseas! ¬†So here’s to¬†December…

1. I miss walking freely, but wonder if I’ll walk slower (those who know…)when I get back home.

2. Re: the items I couldn’t take on the plane in February, Ms. Hill summed it up,¬†‘thought what I wanted was something I needed.’ ¬†I didn’t NEED any of it.

3. I’m not with structured prayer time if you¬†ain’t tryna live right outside those times…

4. Big/small, everyone has a role to play. #justice

5. No matter how far you try to go, God will be there, making sure you confront your issues ūüėČ (or maybe just me?)

6. I don’t have anything to prove being on this journey. ¬†So whether it was¬†one day or one year, I succeeded.

7. I couldn’t picture December when I first arrived and here¬†we are.

8. This blog (as late as it is at times) is one thing I have consistently followed through on, big step for me.

9. Nothing like an African baby dedication!! I need that in my life!!!

10. Love church out here, but still wondering why service is 3 hours??!!!

11. Had my first Eritrean wedding experience! Different, cultural, beautiful, grateful.

12. My first (yes, I been a late bloomer) baking experience was banana bread and it was quite edible!

13. I went in traditional Ethiopian dress for the Military Christmas Ball.  I said I was running my own race!

14. Some experiences you can’t put into words, like this Christmas! Unforgettable in a beautiful¬†way!

15. I still need my people from back home.

16. I underestimated how awesome this year was for me, till one day I looked at my pics. ¬†Sometimes it’s hard to see the beauty when you’re in it, but we gotta take a moment.

17. ¬†As IMPERFECT as it is, I am so grateful to be born in the USA. ¬†I now recognize there is privilege (and for me, responsibility) that comes with the¬†blue passport. ¬†I don’t want to take that for granted.

18. I pray that I’ll continue to follow God’s lead¬†when I return to familiarity.

19. Witnessing loving, God centered families at church warms and encourages my spirit.

20. Nervous, excited, prayerful, trusting, wondering…about what God, in 2015, will bring!

I made it to December!!!

I made it to December!!!


November-Mind in Transition-Month 3

This thing survived being submerged in a river!

She survived being submerged in a river!

1. Had one page left on my passport (Eph 3:20)!! Handled that! I gotta see¬†y’all at some point!

2. In reference to my travels, was asked ‘where haven’t¬†you been??!’ Crazy because I don’t think I’ve seen a lot, yet people often see you differently than you see yourself.

3. The okeydoke is being invited to Thanksgiving dinner to arrive and find out everyone has to cook it. #wheretheydo… Made for good times tho!

4. He who finds a wife finds a good thing-God ain’t never lie!!!

5. I doubt leaving the house before 6am will ever get fun for me, help me in my unbelief Lord!

6. My church fam out here really check on folk-thankful my EBC foundation set the standard.

7. I feel very connected to the movements back home.  Figuring out my role!!

8. God is teaching me the importance of balance in this season, but the strug has been real.

9. The Princess Souk-aka flea market in Saudi Arabia is quite an experience-great deals, but bring your box cutter.

10. Trouble really don’t last always, but neither does happiness. ¬†For me? It has to be the joy and peace of The Lord!!!! Traveling solo is making me¬†see faith in a new way.

11. Yup! The honeymoon’s definitely over. ¬†Still…would NEVER take this journey back!

12. I was concerned that my students weren’t really getting it/getting me, then the midterm happened and I was pleasantly surprised.

13.¬†Two words that may try your nerves¬†when you’re NEXT¬†in line out here…’After prayer.’ ‘Whaaaaat???!!!! ¬†We still got 10 minutes!!!’ Lol, sorry I digress.

14. Umm Saudi gets cold y’all (not¬†NY cold, but) I’m bout to buy a space heater!

15. Thankful I was raised in a place with proper drainage systems. Rain/flooding out here is super dangerous!!!!

16. In life you will disappoint and be disappointed. Thankful for Jesus tho!

17. Talking to two friends back home recently was like eating a good home cooked meal! A fulfilling¬†place! ¬†Don’t be fooled, I need y’all!

18. I’m in a place where people¬†have never witnessed the 4 seasons of the year. It’s Saudi¬†winter, summer and khalas! ¬†(pron. Ha-Las=finished)

19. The compound life/social scene out here¬†gives me a college vibe-I’ll pass thanks.

20. I don’t think I have a metro card for when I get back home. Am I gon need to ask for a swipe? How much is the fare + card now??!! ¬†I know, tomorrow has enough worries of its own, but typical A! ūüėõ

October-Growing Pains-Month 2

So I was blessed to go to the Mother of Motherlands in Sep/Oct and this happened…

1. On the plane I was asked if I was a boy or girl, feelings hurt much?

2. ¬†At the airport in Addis Ababa, there’s¬†no such thing as orderly lines, push your way through or don’t get served-so push I did.

3. The current weather in Ethiopia is cool and rainy like NY fall, which I’m not really enjoying. I miss that Saudi heat-I’m a warm/hot weather girl for sure!

4. At the first place I stayed, I was greeted with a condom (wrapper not included) on the hallway floor.

5. I’m wondering what this journey will bring; like Asia, I’m going unplanned with hopes of having a full, rich experience, but¬†I don’t know what will be said when I return on October 8th.

6. Got my first international ‘are you Rasta?’¬†today.

7. Was told I’m African but not Ethiopian (oh) , then was told I’m Ethiopian…still on a quest to find my lineage.

8.¬†Ethiopia wasn’t love at first sight for me.

9.¬†I saw many things I wanted to capture in pictures, but didn’t. ¬†I felt convicted to¬†respect¬†the human experience. ¬†When abroad,¬†consider the intent behind¬†what you photograph.

10. Going to Bahir Dir in northern Ethiopia changed my experience for the better.  Sometimes you gotta give time, time.

11. Africans are the strongest people I’ve encountered in my life! I come from a powerful people!

12. I walked barefoot in the mud for the first time EVER and definitely stepped in some mess, but it was great??!!  Thankful my guide pushed me to try new things!

13. God raises people everywhere we go!! I now have FAMILY in Ethiopia!!!!

14. Ethiopian people-man woman, boy, girl are BEAUTIFUL!!

15. Went bike riding in Bahir Dir and again became¬†in awe of my life! ¬†I hope you¬†experience an euphoric excitement from God’s blessings too!

16. Injera-the main dish in Ethiopia isn’t my favorite,¬†but…

17. Witnessing extreme poverty around the world makes me feel helpless.

18. Don’t take hot water and lights for granted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ¬†My survivor skills have definitely sharpened since leaving America.

19. I don’t have a BFF. ¬†I have my peoplepeople, but they don’t come with that title. Don’t know why this post is on here.

20. When I got back to Saudi, life was waiting hard for me,¬†playtime was over, and it wasn’t comfortable.

Before I took them off!

The Gestation-Month 1, September-“Regularly” Scheduled Programming

Trying Something New!

Trying Something New!

As I start my first full school year in Saudi which will likely be 9-10 months, I kept thinking about how this gift of time is in preparation for something beautiful just like pregnancy, and¬†each month,¬†many changes are happening. ¬†What will God manifest? ¬†What will He give life to? Let’s watch what happens…

1. When I returned to Saudi, to no fault of mine, I didn’t have a job secured-told y’all this was the year of the discomfort zone!

2. I love where I’m working and what I’m doing right now!!! I’m growing, being challenged¬†and¬†stretched. ¬†Look at God!

3. I feel famous when Travel Noire or an Instagram travel site features me! ha! It’s been a great platform for me to share more info with others.

4. Joined the cleanup crew at church.  I bring my own gloves-typical A move!

5. Making a list of SMART goals is easier than the execution…still on it though!

6. I’m being challenged to grow in the discomfort.

7. Y’all get excited for the Jewish holidays, but I’m hype about Eid-Al-Adha! 11 days off cheah!! Eid Mubarak to the bros and sis’!

8. Grateful and praying for the country I live in right now.  Its opened doors to so much for me! Testimony in progress.

9. My homemade lentil soup is pretty darn good (and not just I said it!! lol)

10. Pre-planning food, clothes, and lessons for the week makes me feel like a responsible adult-weird.

11. I take for granted that I’m a native English speaker, but to people around the world, it’s a huge deal!

12. Yemeni pomegranates yaaaassssss!!! And for about $.050??!!!¬†How much y’all pomegranates cost??!! oh. ūüėõ

13. I’m a BK girl in a Saudi world. ¬†People say its the way I walk, talk, etc. Back home some of my¬†people (side eye!!) would say I’m not from BK¬†(cuz I’m kinda quirky and stuff lol) but here? Notsomuch.

14. It’s like God gave me this gift of¬†pausing time for me to catch up on something! I’m happy being here, right now, in this moment.

15. Shopping trips have to be planned around prayer time and that¬†can¬†try one’s¬†(okay my) patience.

16. I have to be in bed by 9pm to get my full 8 hours, hasn’t happened yet, but God willing, it shall!!!!

17. Change happens.  Get comfortable with it! lol, but how???!!!

18. I love the clarity that comes with being a woman of a certain age ūüėČ I feel it!!!

19. ‘In everything there is a season and a time.’ ¬†God reminded me this as my people back home¬†recently experienced loss and are going through. Praying.

20. By the time this reaches you, God willing I’ll be coming back¬†from Ethiopia (remember, Eid break)!!!…What will I have to share in October??!!

August-When I Really Knew It Was Purposeful

I didn’t forget my baby! Timing is off,¬†but thank you Jesus, I’m back! PS-I really wrote this in August, so¬†let’s go back for a minute!

1. Sa Pa in Vietnam was the most beautiful place I’ve visited this summer! ¬†Every pic is a postcard! Google the images…

2. When I started this summer journey, all I knew was I’d be¬†volunteering in Thailand for 2 weeks. ¬†Two months later, I visited 5 countries¬†and nearly ran out of passport pages. ¬†Beyond what I could ask or imagine.

3. As much as I miss home, I’m not ready to leave yet. ¬†God is working on unfinished business in me ūüėČ

4. The world is big, but small y’all, please go see¬†more of¬†it!

5. His strength is made perfect in my weakness for sure! I kept saying that as I trekked up them rice fields lol!

6. Between surviving a kayak capsizing scare with a NYer, meeting my first Lucille (if you know, you know ūüėČ ) and being recognized by a brother from Clinton Hill (wild story!!), Laos definitely holds a memorable place in my heart.

7. I thought IG was self indulgent till I joined (ha!) but it’s been great for connecting with new traveling friends.

8. In one of my trying moments, my big sis Terri said ‘live like it’s all good, cuz it is!’…she ain’t lie.

9. When you go to remote Asian rest stops, don’t think fried rice for snacks, more like grasshopper and live larvae ūüėź

10. The people!!! The people make this experience come alive, thankful for everyone I’ve met along the way, every encounter had purpose.

11. Ask strangers/new acquaintances ¬†how they perceive you, you’ll be surprised at what you learn or what’s confirmed.

12. I feel like I was on a 5 month honeymoon since I left BK ūüôā and I’m actually looking forward to going back to work in Saudi.

13. America held out on some shady history.  I love my country, but side eye fo sho!

14. Travel light. ¬†Thanks Talijah!!! As a backpacker, all you really need is 5 main things! Wanna know? ask…

15. Some days are regular and that’s okay. ¬†Everyday ain’t gotta be Disney World!

16. I’m looking forward to tithing again!

17. Gonna miss high speed internet! Asia, y’all rule that!

18. Biggest takeaway from the summer-God showed me I really had to trust Him and know that all would work out for my good, even in uncertainty and discomfort.  He never needed my approval, but wow!!! God really loves us.  God really loves me!!!

19. Not bragging, just recognizing. ¬†It was brave to travel “solo” this summer (of course God was all in… still) grateful I was able to “feel the fear, but do it anyway”-DCB

20. To whom much is given, much is required.  I get it.

Each Pic Has A Special Story

July- A One Woman Show!

One of these expressions is NOT like the other!

One of these expressions is NOT like the other!

Whew! The narrowing down process was a lot harder this time. ¬†31 days in SEA (South East Asia) is a long time for only 20 posts, but¬†here goes…

1. I wish I paid more attention in Global class¬†in high school, instead of being happy with my 65. ¬†I pretty much knew nothing about each country I visited. I know I know…

2. Four countries in one month is ambitious. ¬†Glad I did it, but next time I’d spend more time in one.

3. Vietnam streets ain’t nuthin¬†ta fu%# wit! (cues the Wu) But seriously, the motorbikers are no joke¬†in the cities¬†and they¬†have no problem running you over.

4. Patong Beach in Thailand was one of the first times I felt FREE like a kid again!

5. I’ve never been the “only” and now I know what it feels like. Not bad, but different.

6. I HATE cigarette smoke and SO MANY¬†tourists smoke!!! Don’t even seem like they heard of cancer :-/

7.¬†I was riding my bike to the beach in Vietnam when I realized, I’m riding a bike to the beach in Vietnam!!!! Glory to God.

8.¬†In retrospect, my favorite experiences this summer have been the most terrifying ones…Oh, I got stories y’all!!!!!

9. You know this, but Black/Brown people need sun screen too.  Peeling at the dinner table is not attractive.

10. In Germany, it’s about 300 Euro (sometimes free) per YEAR to attend university. ¬†Seriously America, what’s really good?

11. I decided some time ago¬†that I will not drink alcohol¬†while I’m out of the USA to be fully present, etc. But I’ll gladly welcome a glass when I return ūüėČ

12. There are genuinely good people in the world who will look after you in need! (Ps 91:11)

13. The Indonesians loooved my hair (and it was lookin all types of crazy!) Surprised that it was appreciated there without question.

14. Traveling alone made me even more aware that I am a woman and a woman of color.

15. Haven’t seen the trailer, but now I really wanna see “Dear White People”!!

16. Being stared, laughed, pointed at and blatantly ignored out here was a lot at times, but I think my skin got a lil thicker!

17. This year,¬†I’ve used these tender-dollar, dinar, riyal, baht, rupiah, real, dong, and kip. Fun to look at, confusing to convert.

18. I hear the real culture shock happens when you come back home. Hmm…

19. Invest in a proper camera when traveling the world. ¬†The iPhone is holding me down, but it ain’t official!

20. On Christ the solid rock I stand.



June: 1 Month, 2 Countries- All God!

Whew!!! I¬†already know I’m not gonna do this post enough justice because there’s been so much, but I hope you still feel me!

1. Saudi cellphone “salesmen”¬†got a true¬†BKNY experience courtesy of yours truly. My girl Karissa can reenact it for y’all. Bottom line, the men found out women DO have a voice that day¬†ūüėČ

2. I had the option of going back to the US for summer vacay, which¬†would’ve been the safe thing to do.

3. But instead, this summer The World has become my address.

4. Always thought backpackers looked silly and now I have a backpack, thanks Trai!

5. I have not seen one African American person since 6/12 (although I’ve seen Africans). ¬†I don’t think I’ve gone that long without seeing my people. I just wanna connect with one, give them the nod/smile or something.

6. Volunteered in Paksong, Thailand for two weeks-humbling and EVERYONE I know back home is living luxuriously, that probably means you.

7. I don’t think I’ll ever get used to cold showers, but I endured for two weeks.

8. In one week, I met and connected with people from Korea, China, Holland, Wales, Thailand, Australia, and France!

9. Mangosteen is my new favorite fruit, especially freshly picked from the tree.

10. Sustainable living (although some parts I’m not willing to do) is the way to go!

11. Bamboo is a strong a$$ tree and useful for so much!!!

12. The more I travel, the less I know.

13. In my volunteer house, I slept under a mosquito nest.

14. I got sucked on by two leeches in one day!!! They really don’t come off without a fight!!!

15.¬†God is THE source. God is MY source. This journey¬†is proof. Talk about a peace that surpasses all understanding…still working on that!

16. I came to Thailand in the beginning of monsoon season.

17. But really…Why is living sometimes the hardest thing to do?

18. Ladies, if your man tells you he’s going to Thailand (Phuket, in particular) solo or with his boys…’slow singing and flower bringing’ is all I’m sayin ūüėČ

19. In Holland, every college student gets at least 100-400 Euro/month to pay for school-no loans and tuition cost is 1500-2000 Euro/year…yeah.

20. God willing, I’m back in Saudi mid-August. ¬†Until then, this summer journey is a blank¬†canvas and I have the paint to create.

Earning my country girl stripes!

Earning my country girl stripes!

May-It’s Been 3 Months Y’all!



1. The Edge of the World in Riyadh is noooo joke! And I climbed that!!! See pics/vid on IG for details.

2. Still haven’t learned how to properly put on¬†a hijab.

3. I know a lil Arabic doe! Mas Mouki?

4. As hot as it is (90+ everyday), I love to sit outside for lunch.

5. Sand and someone else’s hair will always find their way into your apartment.

6. For Me, 2014 is The Year of the Discomfort Zone!

7. Women are awesome! ¬†I’ve met some dope, beautiful women out here¬†who remind me¬†that there’s more work to be done and more life to live!

8. In 2014, I have a pen pal. Lol, memba those??!!

9. I’ts 115 degrees as I’m typing this. ¬†Now, where ¬†in NY have you seen a dang 46 Celsius on the forecast??

10. Having¬†dinner at an Eritrean family’s home has been my most memorable, traumatizing, and hilarious experience in Saudi Arabia thus far! See the Gram for deets.

11.Yeah women are awesome and all that good stuff from #7, but having my own apartment has DEF made the difference.  With all the time we have to spend together (work, travel, etc) I need my space!

12. I know how to make chicken and rice Somali style for at least 4 people! Yes, I’m hype.

13. My apartment has room for me to walk around, breathe, store things and more. I know, difficult concept for my hometown folk.

14. This journey is so much more than location. God is using this place as a vessel for Him to work on/in me. ¬†It ain’t all been pretty, but it’s all been worth it.

15. People out here don’t seem interested¬†in pop culture like we are¬†back home. ¬†Guess that means I shouldn’t be either huh? Oh.

16. I think my Arabic teacher (who is Yemeni) is one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. Never wears makeup or earrings, hair always tied back, super cool, and can teach some Arabic!

17. I couldn’t have appreciated this journey 10, 5, or 2 years ago. God be knowing!

18. Coming here with just the basics (5 skirts, 5 shirts-see Feb posts) and looking REAL basic (can someone do my hair? Diane Bailey??) has helped me really see me without the things I probably thought made me…feel me? (say that 3x fast lol)

19. To the person like me, who often feels ordinary, remember God is extraordinary and YOU are not exempt from the magnitude of His blessings. ¬†This journey is for you too. *Cues Mary Mary’s “Ordinary People”

20. June’s postings will be courtesy of…Thailand! ¬†Thanks in advance for your prayers. ¬†Can’t wait to get dirty ūüėČ


April Baby!!!

1. My birthday was epic!! Can you say you survived getting kicked in the booty by a camel in the desert on your bornday??!! Oh okay.

2.¬†Stores in the mall open at 4PM on Friday…PM!!! ¬†Huh??!!

3. If you know me, you know I’m a fast walker…but yeah, Saudis don’t roll like that, I call it the Saudi Stroll, it tries my patience, but reminds me to slow down.

4. I love and appreciate this place, the challenges, and experiences. ¬†I¬†wouldn’t take this journey back for anything!

5. I learned the Biker Shuffle line dance in Saudi!! BK/NY, shame on you for not puttin me on!

6. Bought my first humidifier out here-the need for quality air is real!

7. You will hear many expats (non locals) complain about anything they can complain about here. ¬†Of those I’ve encountered, none have been¬†deported, deployed or forced to come! ¬†I’m¬†more mindful of the conversations I entertain.

8. iPhone’s and Saudi water don’t mix. ¬†Only had it a year, but RIP 4/25/2014. ¬†I miss ol’ school communication sometimes!

9. I am more adventurous than I thought.

10. I’m nothing without God.

11. We celebrated The Resurrection on Good Friday.

12. I love Grace Outreach Church, Riyadh!!  

13. Buying Chuck Taylor’s out here made me feel like home-the little things.

14. THERE IS NO PLACE LIKE EBC!!!!  I love and miss my home team!

15. Sometimes I underestimate the magnitude of this experience because I’m in it, but it’s pretty incredible because our God is like that.

16. God is helping me in my unbelief.

17. I bring lunch to work every day!!!

18. Being here makes me realize living don’t have to be hard everyday!

19. I’m still relying on the free internet, as I type this from the roof lol.

20. Admittedly, I am more¬†concerned about¬†what’s going on in the world now than I was before I left.

Sand all around me!

Sand all around me!


March: 20 NotSoRandoms

Nightlife in Saudi! lol! Outside Najd Village-Traditional Saudi Restaurant

Nightlife in Saudi! lol! Outside a traditional Saudi Restaurant

1.¬†Currently no¬†recycling- could it be why Riyadh is one of the most polluted cities in the world?- pray for my lungs y’all!!

2. For women- the art of not tripping over your floor length skirt and/or abaya is a skill one must master for survival ūüėČ

3. Saudi women (in their floor length skirts) ALL have BODY for¬†DAYZZZ!! I never saw this kinda body before…and it’s natural!!! ¬†

4. There’s a water hose in every bathroom and wherever my next home is, I’ll need¬†to have a hose in the bathroom too.¬†

5. They ain’t into green veggies, but there’s no shortage of ¬†rice, dates, and meat!!

6. There are Black Saudis. I’m¬†sure¬†there’s history behind that, but I’ve met some chocolate sistas born & raised here, which I hadn’t considered.

7. I don’t feel out of place here. ¬†Kids love to stare, but they do that everywhere ūüôā¬†

8. I am safe-we gotta see the world folks! That’s how we understand what’s really going on in countries we don’t know about. Of course, I walk with purpose, I’m prayerful,¬†etc. but I’m not fearful out here.

9. Mosquitoes out here are no respecter of person, home or body part-anyone can get got.

10. The shower is not meant for your comfort, but your cleanliness, hence the 20 min hot to cold time.

11. Sandstorms will force schools to close early, I don’t think I’ve seen the worst but the flooding is real!

12. Chicken Kabsa is the main dish here (think chicken and rice).

13. I now understand why ahem, “some” cabbies in NY drive the way they do.

14. Groceries are really cheap- I buy local ūüėČ

15. The students call every teacher, “Teacher”

16. Only met one other BKer out here.

17. Prayer time will shut everything down!!! Don’t get caught shopping in the store-you WILL wait till it’s over, gates down and all!

18. We’re now 7hrs ahead of NY. ¬†My work week is Sunday-Thursday. ¬†Friday is the Islamic holy day.

19. I’ve been safely going to church every Friday¬†since I’ve been¬†in Saudi Arabia!!! The worship is serious!! God is out here y’all!!!

20. I’ve learned to love and appreciate the sound of my speaking voice since I’ve been here-the Saudi girls love it, they say “Teacher, beautiful voice!”